If you’ve ever had to undergo strings of medical tests or lengthy procedures, you know that there are plenty of doctors, nurses and technicians out there who could do with a few lessons in etiquette and bedside manner. I could spend years on this blog documenting every moment I was snapped at, interrupted, or made to feel like a nuisance while I was fretting about test results or mounting pain. It would take me a decade to do justice to all the horror stories I’ve heard from friends and fellow patients.
But the poor manners of all those (probably overworked) professionals who made a tough situation worse render the kindness of others all the more dazzling. (I love you, Nurse Wilson!) And it’s crucial to bear in mind that the patient’s version of things is only one side of the story. Medical professionals rarely get to see people at their best – their job is to witness and inflict pain all day. They must remain objective while navigating a sea of misery and fear, where not everyone claiming to be severely sick really is.
In order for doctor and patient to have the best possible experience, both have to be aware of what the other requires. Which is why I’m handing over the mic to Dr. Leana Wen, who’s penned an excellent article called “The 10 Types of ER Patients” this week. Her pieces of sound advice include:
No. 3: The Googler. The Internet can be a powerful tool for empowering patients, but please use it responsibly. Looking up your symptoms yourself might turn up that you have a brain tumor when you have food poisoning or that you are pregnant when you have belly pain (and you’re a man). Use the Internet to help you understand your diagnosis and treatment and to come up with questions—not to diagnose yourself.
No. 4: The “Pain All Over” Patient. We call it the “positive review of systems” when you say yes to everything we ask. Headache? Chest pain? Shortness of breath? Fatigue? Muscle aches? Yes, yes, of course, yes. Some illnesses really affect many parts of the your body, but more often than not, patients will say yes to convince us they are ill. We know you aren’t well, so tell us the truth. (If you don’t, you run the risk of undergoing unnecessary testing.) If everything hurts, try to tell us your story. When did you last feel normal and well? What happened then? And please don’t exaggerate. If you say that your pain is 15 out of 10, but you’re eating lunch and texting on your iPhone, it’s hard for us to calibrate your symptoms.
Head over to Slate to read the whole thing.